I interrupt the vacation storytelling to bring you a little note on my encounter today. I’m going to do some generalizing & stereotyping.
If that gets your knickers in a twist, read no further.
I waited for my bus inside a hotel lobby today because it
was chilly outside. I sat down next to a man who must have seen me eyeing his
goodies because he jokingly declared that I couldn’t have his wine or
chocolates. He explained that today was his lucky day. A lady had given him the
wine because she didn’t want to carry it around in her purse and the chocolates
were from a waitress to make up for his cold eggs.
He asked me if I was from DC, to which I responded that nobody is
really from DC. This is, of course, not entirely true, but pretty close. He
wanted to know where I’m from. I answer this question differently depending on
the situation. When I’m outside the DMV (DC-Maryland-Virigina), I usually tell people I’m from the DC
area, but when I’m here in the DMV, the answer is always North Dakota. I
haven’t lived there in almost 10 years, but it’s still home.
“You’ll never guess where
I’m from,” he said, “North Dakota!” Of course he was.
We went on to a have a lengthy discussion about home, oil
(naturally), his visit to DC, and my life in DC. It was the best way to spend a
few minutes waiting for the bus. It reminded me how much I love people from the
Midwest, particularly people from North Dakota. There are so few of us that
it’s hard to meet one you don’t instantly love.
Some of you may not get the whole Midwest thing, and I
understand that. I know we aren’t the warmest bunch. We can be a bit (ok, a
lot) reserved, pragmatic to a fault, suspicious of outsiders, annoyingly polite.
We think soda is pop, this is salad, and distance is measured in hours, not
minutes.
After living in the South for 5 years and now the Mid-Atlantic for just under 5 years (I confess that I always thought DC
was just considered East Coast before moving here), Midwest really is best. This isn’t a knock on
the South. I loved the food and was fascinated by the big personalities, bless
your hearts. Although, I will admit I could have done without the weather and the
hugs. SO MANY HUGS. And I love living here in the DMV where we enjoy 4 distinct
seasons, cultural diversity, and trees. Trees are great.
But at the end of the day, there is no one I would rather
have in my corner than a Midwesterner. We are fiercely loyal, refreshingly
genuine, sensible, hard working, honest, and humble. It can be hard to break through
our shells, but once you do, you have a friend for life. We won’t think twice
about lending a hand or feeding a neighbor – probably with hotdish.
Since I haven’t lived in the Midwest for a long time, I find those
sensibilities in me slipping away. The accent faded a long time ago. I smile
less at strangers. I walk faster. Being able to see for miles now seems
strange. Today was a nice little reminder that there is no place like home,
even if home is considered a flyover state by most.
